The Art of Spending Mindfully
As your broker, I want to help you not just protect your financial future with the right mortgage or insurance, but also make the most of the money you have today. One of the simplest, yet most powerful, ways to do this is through mindful spending. Especially with Christmas around the corner… Let’s all try to channel conscious consuming.
Mindfulness has become a popular tool for improving focus, wellbeing, and relationships. Research even shows it can reduce stress and support your overall health. At its core, mindfulness is about being present in the moment, not dwelling on the past or worrying about the future.
Mindful spending applies that same principle to your finances. Instead of making impulsive purchases online or in-store, you pause and ask: “Does this align with my goals and values? Will this really add to my wellbeing?” By slowing down, you can make more conscious decisions about where your hard-earned money goes.
Building this “mindfulness muscle” can be simple. Regular mindfulness practices through apps like Headspace, Insight Timer, or 1 Giant Mind can help you pay closer attention to your spending habits and even savour the purchases you choose to make. Books such as Kakebo: The Japanese Art of Mindful Spending or Mindful Money by Canna Campbell also share practical strategies and real-life success stories.
Why does this matter? Stress spending is real. How many times have you bought something on impulse – clothes, gadgets, or a holiday – hoping it would lift your mood? The thrill of a new purchase is often short-lived. Studies show that we quickly “habituate” to what we buy, meaning the initial excitement fades unless we pause to appreciate it. Mindfulness helps us savour purchases and make choices that truly matter.
Other strategies to curb stress spending include:
- Recognising your spending patterns and avoiding triggers, such as social media ads.
- Replacing shopping with other stress-relievers, like calling a friend.
- Filling your online cart or writing a wishlist, then waiting before buying.
- Keeping your long-term goals in mind – whether it’s a home, holiday, or new car – to remind yourself of what you’re really working towards.
Mindful spending also fits naturally with movements like minimalism or downsizing, creating a simpler, more intentional life. Even if life feels hectic or you’re just trying to survive, mindfulness is one of the most effective ways to reduce stress, boost your mood, and make your money work for you.
Tips from a Psychologist
How do you avoid stress spending?
Phone a friend, fill your cart, but don’t check out, and understand your spending patterns.
What if my finances are tight?
Prioritise purchases that add lasting value or security, embrace minimalism, and don’t hesitate to ask for help.
How do I strengthen mindfulness?
Try doing nothing for 10 minutes, focus on a landscape, or use apps like Headspace, 1 Giant Mind, or Insight Timer.
By bringing mindfulness into your spending, you can make small changes today that have a big impact on your financial and personal future.